You're not going to make it: Why this phrase is not relevant when it comes to fertility.
by Ermina Konstantinidou, last updated 27 Oct 2025,
4 min read
The ticking clock. The well-meaning (or not-so-well-meaning) friend. The societal pressure. Suppose you're over a certain age and dreaming of starting a family. In that case, you've likely encountered the disheartening phrase, "You're not going to make it." However, here's the truth: this phrase is not only irrelevant but also a relic of outdated thinking.
While it's true that female fertility naturally declines with age, the narrative that conceiving after 35 (or even 40) is an impossibility is simply false. Advancements in reproductive medicine have revolutionised the landscape of fertility, offering hope and solutions to countless individuals and couples.

The age factor: Understanding the nuances
Let's talk about the biological realities without succumbing to fear-mongering. A woman is born with all the eggs she'll ever have, and both the quantity and quality of these eggs decrease over time. This decline becomes more pronounced after the mid-30s.
What does this mean for fertility?
- Reduced egg reserve: Fewer eggs are available for fertilisation.
- Increased chromosomal abnormalities: Older eggs are more prone to genetic errors, which can lead to implantation failure or miscarriage.
- Hormonal changes: The body's hormonal environment also shifts, which can impact ovulation
However, understanding these factors is the first step towards overcoming them. It's not a death sentence for your dreams; it's a call to explore the incredible possibilities available today.
IVF: A beacon of hope
This is where In Vitro Fertilisation (IVF) steps in, transforming the "you're not going to make it" into "you absolutely can." IVF is a sophisticated process that involves fertilising eggs with sperm outside the body in a lab.
How does IVF help address age-related fertility challenges?
- Taking advantage of your ovarian reserve: IVF protocols are designed to stimulate the ovaries to recruit multiple eggs in one cycle, increasing the chances of finding viable eggs.
- Embryo selection: During IVF, embryos can be closely monitored and selected for transfer based on their development and quality. Advanced technologies such as Preimplantation Genetic Testing (PGT) allow screening for chromosomal abnormalities, improving the chances of achieving a healthy pregnancy.
- Egg Donation: For women with significantly diminished egg reserves or quality, egg donation provides a highly successful pathway to parenthood, utilising eggs from a younger, healthier donor.
- Embryo freezing: Many people choose to freeze surplus embryos for future use, preserving their options.
Newlife IVF Greece: Your partner in this journey
Choosing the right clinic is one of the most important steps when considering IVF. It’s about finding a team that offers both advanced medical expertise and genuine care; a balance that can make the process feel more personal and reassuring.
Located in the beautiful city of Thessaloniki, Newlife IVF Greece has earned a reputation as a leading fertility clinic, attracting patients from around the globe. We understand the unique challenges faced by individuals seeking fertility treatment, especially those who may feel the pressure of age.
Why consider Newlife IVF Greece?
- High success rates: Newlife IVF boasts impressive success rates, comparable to and often exceeding those of leading clinics worldwide. This is a testament to their experienced medical team, state-of-the-art laboratory, and personalised treatment protocols.
- Experienced specialists: Our team of fertility doctors, embryologists, and nurses are highly skilled and dedicated, providing individualised care tailored to your specific needs.
- Affordable treatment: Compared to many Western countries, the cost of IVF treatment in Greece, particularly at Newlife IVF, is significantly more affordable without compromising on quality or success. Additionally, there are payment stages tailored to make this process seamless.
- Patient-Centric approach: We prioritise patient well-being, offering comprehensive support throughout the entire process, from initial consultation to post-treatment care.
- Beautiful Location: The opportunity to combine your fertility journey with a trip to a stunning, welcoming country like Greece can significantly reduce stress and enhance the overall experience.
Don't let a phrase define your future
The phrase "you're not going to make it" has no place in your fertility journey. The landscape of reproductive medicine is constantly evolving, offering more possibilities than ever before. With clinics like Newlife IVF Greece, age is no longer the insurmountable barrier it once was.
If you're dreaming of starting a family, explore your options. Seek expert advice. And most importantly, believe in the power of modern medicine and your own resilience. Your journey to parenthood is yours to define, and with the right support, you absolutely can make it.
Ermina Konstantinidou, BSc, MSc
Ermina is a Midwife and an International Patient Coordinator at Newlife IVF Greece.